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New Year, Fresh Start: Setting Your Family Up for Success in 2025

by Dr. Jazmine
Dec 30, 2024
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The other day, I was chatting with a parent who shared something that really hit home.

She said, "After such a busy holiday season, I feel completely drained. Between recovering from all the festivities, gearing up with restart school routines, and managing daily mealtime and bedtime challenges, I barely have time to breathe, let alone think about my parenting goals for the new year."

I bet many of you can relate to that feeling of being stuck in survival mode.

As we approach the new year, I know it might feel overwhelming to think about reflection and goal-setting.

You might be thinking, "I can barely handle what's on my plate right now!" or "I've tried setting goals before, and nothing changed."

I get it.

But here's what I've learned from working with hundreds of families:

In this issue, we're going to explore:

  • Why reflection matters (even when you're exhausted!)
  • How to notice your parenting growth (trust me, it's happening!)
  • Simple ways to set intentions that actually stick
  • A step-by-step guide to create positive change without overwhelming yourself

 

Part 1: Understanding the WHY

Let's be honest - between managing tantrums, juggling schedules, and trying to keep everyone fed and somewhat clean, reflection might feel like a luxury you don't have time for. But here's what I want you to know:

Think about it.

Remember when you used to immediately react to your child's behavior? Now, you might notice yourself taking a breath first.

Remember when you thought every tantrum needed to be "fixed"? Now, you're learning to hold space for big feelings. These are signs of profound growth!

Some of the most beautiful transformations happen when we realize:

  • Our snappy comments usually signal our own overwhelm (not our child being "difficult")
  • Our rush to independence ("Do it faster! Hurry up!") often comes from pressure we put on ourselves
  • Our parenting journey is unique - we don't need to do it like everyone else
  • Our "mistakes" are opportunities to reconnect, not reasons for shame
  • Our child's emotional journey is their own - we can support without controlling

Now that we understand WHY reflection matters, let's dive into HOW we can make it work - even in the midst of busy family life.

I've broken this down into simple, manageable steps that any parent can follow, no matter how chaotic things feel right now.

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