"I’M SLEEPING HERE!!" What Bedtime Standoffs Are Actually About
"She has a very hard time going to bed on her own and will not let us go downstairs when it's bedtime."
A TMP Times member sent me that line recently, and if you're already nodding, here's the rest of what she told me.
Her daughter put on her pajamas, jumped straight into her parents' bed, and said, "I'm SLEEPING HERE!" When her mom asked her to come back to her room, together, not alone, she...
The Lighthouse Gift Shop (and Why We Left Empty-Handed)
It was the last evening of our 5-day summer trip to the beach. We were out shopping for a souvenir, something small to remember it by. We ended up in a tiny gift shop at the top of a lighthouse, the kind of shop where you have to turn sideways to get down the aisle.
My husband had escorted our 3-year-old suddenly out of the lighthouse after suddenly having to go pee.
So it was just me and my ...
Book Club Meltdown (The Night "Use Your Words" Stopped Working)
Over the summer, my daughters and I started a book club. It came from the realization that all our reading time was spent with us all reading independently. I started to miss reading and having conversations together. As they enter puberty, I also want to stay connected with them, talk about important topics and answer any questions or concerns that linger in their minds. I want a regular”mee...

