Tags: shame/self-worth/confidence
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5 Phrases That Sound Like Backtalk But Are Actually Healthy Communication
Keisha came to the group coaching call exhausted. Her 6-year-old daughter Maya had started pushing back on everything. At breakfast, when Keisha said no more screen time, Maya crossed her arms and said, "That's not fair! You're on your phone all the time!"
Keisha felt her face get hot. In her h...
by Dr. Jazmine —
Jan 26, 2026
boundaries/discipline
disrespect/backtalk
emotional regulation
shame/self-worth/confidence
6 Ways You're Accidentally Teaching Anxiety (Without Realizing It)
I once worked with a mom, we’ll call her Carmen, who had a 5-year-old daughter named Naomi. Carmen reported struggling with bedtime anxiety. Every night, Naomi would spiral.
"What if there's a fire? What if someone breaks in? What if you forget to pick me up from school tomorrow?"
The questions...
by Dr. Jazmine —
Jan 19, 2026
boundaries/discipline
emotional regulation
parent self-care/repair
shame/self-worth/confidence
When Homework Becomes a Daily Battle: How to Raise a Kid Who Loves Learning
I received a question during a coaching call that I hear constantly:
"My 7-year-old doesn't want to do her homework. It's not mandatory at her school, but I think it's good practice. She did homework in kindergarten, but we stopped over the summer and now I'm having trouble getting back into th...
by Dr. Jazmine —
Jan 05, 2026
boundaries/discipline
emotional regulation
school issues
shame/self-worth/confidence
5 Limiting Beliefs to Leave in 2025 (So 2026 Can Actually Be Different)
As we wrap up 2025, I wanted to take a pause from tactical strategies (like scripts and tips) and spend some time discussing something more foundational - The beliefs that quietly shape how we parent.
We all have limiting beliefs. Every single one of us. They're part of being human. They develo...
by Dr. Jazmine —
Dec 29, 2025
boundaries/discipline
emotional regulation
parent self-care/repair
shame/self-worth/confidence
"No Thank You" - What to Teach Your Child to Say Instead of Hitting When Frustrated
I could hear the exhaustion in a dad's voice during our coaching call:
"My 4-year-old hits us more now when she doesn't agree with something or wants to say no to a request. If she doesn't get the treat she wants, she immediately goes to smack me. If I give her choices and she doesn't want eith...
by Dr. Jazmine —
Dec 08, 2025
aggression
boundaries/discipline
emotional regulation
frustration
hitting
shame/self-worth/confidence
tantrums/aggression
"Am I Raising Spoiled Kids?" Here's What I Realized.
I've been thinking a lot about my kids this holiday season.
About how much STUFF they have. How different their childhood is from mine. How they've never known what it's like to worry about money or food or keeping the heat or lights on.
I have vivid memories of playing Jenga in the dark next t...
by Dr. Jazmine —
Dec 01, 2025
boundaries/discipline
emotional regulation
parent self-care/repair
shame/self-worth/confidence
“Why is Her Skin Brown?” “That Man is So Fat!” What to Say When Your Child Points Out Differences in Public
It happened on the walk into school.
Your 5-year-old spotted another child and said, loudly, "Why doesn't she have hair??"
You froze. Your face got hot. You wanted to disappear.
Did the other parent hear? Did the child hear? What do you even say right now?
You feel conflicted because on one end...
by Dr. Jazmine —
Nov 03, 2025
boundaries/discipline
emotional regulation
school issues
shame/self-worth/confidence
The 3 Words That Stop Toddler Hitting
I just lived through this last week with my 2-year-old son.
We were at the end of our bedtime routine, already past the point of exhaustion, and he melted down over stickers. Not because the stickers mattered, but because his little brain was maxed out and had nothing left to give. When I final...
by Dr. Jazmine —
Oct 20, 2025
boundaries/discipline
emotional regulation
shame/self-worth/confidence
tantrums/aggression
Gentle vs. FAFO Parenting: Why Both Miss the Point About Boundaries
“Your brain is going to tell you you’re being mean. That doesn’t make the boundary wrong.”
That’s what I told two parents on a recent group coaching call. And I want you to hear it too.
Because right now, the parenting world is caught in a tug-of-war between two camps: gentle parenting and FAFO...
by Dr. Jazmine —
Oct 13, 2025
boundaries/discipline
emotional regulation
parent self-care/repair
shame/self-worth/confidence
How I Lost 100 Pounds and Found My Strength as a Mother
I don’t usually talk about my weight. But today I’m going to.
After my son was born in December 2022, I hit rock bottom.
He was a week overdue. By that point I was so sick and miserable I could barely walk. I remember going to the hospital for the induction and feeling like my body was giving o...
by Dr. Jazmine —
Oct 06, 2025
boundaries/discipline
emotional regulation
parent self-care/repair
shame/self-worth/confidence
Why Some Kids Melt Down at Drop Off (And Others Don't)
"Every morning, it's the same thing," Priya told me during our coaching call, and I could hear that familiar exhaustion in her voice that so many parents carry. "Zara stands in the preschool line, looks at me with this little smirk, and says 'I don't want to go to school today' in this sad voic...
by Dr. Jazmine —
Sep 15, 2025
boundaries/discipline
emotional regulation
shame/self-worth/confidence
transitions/routines
Your Child Just Hit You. Should You Give Them a Hug?
Mike was trying to get his 5-year-old daughter ready for bed when she completely lost it. She didn't want to brush her teeth, didn't want to put on pajamas, and was melting down about everything. When he gently but firmly guided her toward the bathroom, she spun around and hit him in the chest ...
by Dr. Jazmine —
Sep 08, 2025
boundaries/discipline
emotional regulation
shame/self-worth/confidence
tantrums/aggression